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November 15, 2007
  What's In A Name?
Posted By Kayla Horacek

 

 

When a child is born, there are many crucial decisions to make.  Fortunately, most of these choices are reoccurring throughout a child’s life, allowing parents to try different approaches for resolution and “trouble-shoot” to obtain the best results for their families.  Other decisions, such as choosing a child’s legal last name, are almost always made immediately following birth and marked with a sense of finality.

So what is a parent to do when the surname that they have chosen (or acquiesced to) is no longer appropriate for their son or daughter?  Is there any legal way to alter this initial choice once it has been made?

Thankfully, California family courts will entertain a parent’s request to alter their child’s surname.  Like any other request for relief concerning children, however, the court will be very concerned with any impact such a change may have on the minor.        

The family court uses the “best interests” of the child standard to evaluate whether a child’s surname should be altered.  This means exactly what common sense tells us the phrase should mean—what is “best”, or most beneficial, for the child on an emotional, psychological, and social level.
 

There is no presumption, despite traditional or historical thinking, that the father has any kind of “primary right” to have a child bear his surname.  A parent’s concerns and interests are not relevant to the court’s determination—unless, of course, these concerns overlap with a child’s best interests.
 

There are several specific factors a court should consider when determining whether a proposed name change is in the best interests of the children. They are as follows:

1. The length of time the child has used a particular surname.  Here, the court is interested in how old the child is and how familiar they are with their last name.  If they are in school, and have become accustomed to their name being used by others, this may weigh against a name alteration.  Nonetheless, children are often resilient and able to adapt to change more easily than adults.  Obviously, the younger a child is, the stronger the argument would be that they have no particular connection to their last name.

2. The effect of a name change on the strength of the mother-child/father child relationship.  The court is interested in whether the name change would impact the mother-child relationship in any particular way—negatively, positively, or neither.  A parent should explain to the court that their proposed name change would help to strengthen their relationship without harming the other parent’s bond with the minor.  For example, if you had raised your child for four years while the other parent was entirely out of the picture, you would argue that changing your child’s last name to your own would help him/her to identify with you and your family, and feel as if he/she belonged to that family unit.  Similarly, because there had never been a bond forged between your child and their other parent, you could argue that removing the absentee parent’s name could not weaken a relationship that does not exist in any meaningful way.

3. Whether the child is in a new family unit bearing a different surname.  This particular factor will only apply to some families who have recently grown and acquired new surnames.  For example, if you have recently gotten married and given birth to a child, it is likely that you, your new child, and your significant other would all have the same last name.  If you have a child from a previous relationship, who bears a different last name, this difference may be a source of difficulty for that child.  As a result, this situation provides the court with a compelling reason to alter that child’s name to coincide with that of his/her newfamily unit.

4. The embarrassment or discomfort the child might experience if he bears a different name.  Because children have a desire to be like their parents and identify with them on all levels, a parent may want to point out any difficulties that different last names (between mother/father and child) pose for their child.  These kinds of problems may come about when the child starts school and/or extracurricular activities and becomes aware of their last name as an identifying factor.

5. The balance of the symbolic role of the surname against the importance of maintaining the biological father-child relationship.  A surname should be a source of pride for a child, and represent his or her family heritage.  This is not the case when a child’s surname is connected to a biological stranger—or a parent that has been absent from his/her child’s life for a significant period of time.  Therefore, it is important to show the court that the proposed name you advocate has a symbolic meaning to your child that outweighs the minor’s need to be connected (via their last name) to their biological father. 

To sum up, the younger your child is when you attempt a name change, the stronger your case is likely to be.  Also, ensure that there are compelling reasons why the change would be best for your child and attempt to keep your concerns and wants out of the picture.
Also, a parent should attempt to discuss the name change with the other parent first, since the court will most likely allow consenting parents to choose a last name they both find appropriate for their child.  It doesn’t hurt to ask, since the other parent may agree with your proposal.

Written by Kayla Horacek

 

 
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October 18, 2007
  Is Brit Fit? Part 2 Of 2
Posted By Don Schweitzer

Is Britney Spears fit to be a responsible parent to her two sons? Family law attorney Don Schweitzer provides legal commentary on this topic while on FOX News.

 

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October 18, 2007
  Is Brit Fit? Part 1 Of 2
Posted By Don Schweitzer

Is Britney Spears fit to be a responsible parent to her two sons? Family law attorney Don Schweitzer provides legal commentary on this topic while on FOX News.
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October 18, 2007
  Britney Spears Custody Crisis
Posted By Don Schweitzer

While on FOX News, family law attorney Don Schweitzer provides legal commentary on the Britney Spears and K-Fed custody battle. During the recent court hearing, the judge ordered Ms. Spears to submit to random drug testing and is allowing her only supervised visitation with her sons.

 

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October 18, 2007
  Principal Forces Teens To Apologize On Hands And Knees
Posted By Don Schweitzer

A mother in Waterford, California, says she is furious after a high school principal allegedly forced her son and another boy apologize for fighting by getting on their hands and knees. Did the principal go too far? Criminal defense attorney Don Schweitzer addresses this issue while on FOX News.

 

 

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October 08, 2007
  Arrest Of Unruly Teen Caught On Tape
Posted By Don Schweitzer


Have you seen the video of the teenager who was arrested in Ft. Pierce for curfew violations? If not, please take time to view it now: Click Here

 

According to Officer Dan Gilroy’s report, he stopped and detained the fifteen year old girl who was out past curfew and was carrying a bag of clothing, which the officer suspected may have been stolen.  When the officer attempted to place the teenager under arrest for the curfew violation, the young lady resisted arrest while the officer attempted to place her in handcuffs. 

At some point in the encounter Officer Gilroy decided he needed to record the arrest, so he walked the young lady to his patrol car and turned on the camera.  The video tape of the remaining portion of this incident shows the teenager biting the hand of the officer.  The officer is then seen striking the teenager and spraying her with pepper spray.  He eventually gets the handcuffs on the teenager and completes the arrest.

The headline to this story has been incorrectly titled, “Dramatic arrest caught on camera in Ft. Pierce.”  After viewing the video of this incident, the correct title should have been: “Teenage curfew violator gets caught assaulting a police officer and resisting arrest.” 

 

Can there be any question that this teenager was resisting arrest?  After all, how many times did the officer tell her to place her hands behind her back before he used force (I counted ten)?  And why would the officer make such an effort to get the camera rolling if he did not believe he needed to protect himself?

When a person assaults a police officer and then resists arrest, there will be force used by the officer in apprehending the suspect.  The officer has to use reasonable force necessary to effectuate the arrest.  As a former police officer, I can tell you that the biggest challenge any street cop has is using self restraint when encountering a person who refuses to be placed under arrest.  At the academy officers are trained to protect themselves, but to use no more force than is necessary for the situation. The type of force a particular officer uses will always depend on that officer’s physical skills and his perception of the force used against him.

In this case the force used by the officer may not look pretty (it never does), but it was entirely reasonable under the circumstances.

What other methods of force could the officer employed?  He could have wrestled her to the ground or used a “come along hold” (a method of twisting the suspects arm to cause compliance), or he may have choked her out with his baton.  In any case, the type of force would have caused pain and not have looked pretty.

My message to the teenager and her family:  Do not violate curfew; and when you are stopped by the police, obey their commands and you won’t have these problems. 

If you believe you were wrongly accused of a crime, hire an attorney, and fight the charges.  If you believe you were being picked on by the police, hire an attorney, and sue the department.   There are plenty of us wily attorney’s who are more than happy to take your case.  However, the last thing you want to do is bite the hand of the officer who is attempting to coax you into submission.  Unless, of course, you want to know what it feels like to have pepper spray poured in your face!

Written by Don Schweitzer

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October 08, 2007
  Historical Or Retro-Active Real Estate Appraisal Valuation
Posted By Clifford Diamond

If you need to know the value of a piece of real estate anywhere from a month ago to a decade ago, it can be done. I’ll show you how it can be done, how it can benefit you, and how an appraiser arrives at value even long after you have sold and moved away. As an experienced appraiser in Southern California with over 20 years experience I would like to share my real estate experience with you.

What is a historical appraisal? Really all appraisals are just a snap-shot of time. Most appraisals are for current market value. So the very day the appraiser comes out and inspects the property the value is valid on that date only and could become no longer valid the very next day. There could be an economic or natural disaster that could change the value overnight. With a historical appraisal the effective date is what the property was worth on that required date, anywhere from last month to 10 or more years ago.

What is the purpose of a historical appraisal? Many and varied reasons. Many accountants and financial planners need to determine the value of property held in estate when the owner dies. This is known as a “Date of Death” appraisal. The IRS will want a professional appraisal in the file to document the value as of that date. Attorneys use the historical appraisal to determine what assets belong to which party. For example let’s say a single person bought a home in 1985 but met and married current spouse in 1995 and separated in 2005. It would be important to know the fair market value on those dates for fair and equitable dissolution. The same would be true of business partners in a property or even family members that pooled financial resources but need to move on.

Are there limitations to what can be done? You would think if you had sold the property years ago and moved away that it could not be done. That’s not true. I recently appraised a property 10 years back, that at the time it was only 1/2 the size, was before the swimming pool, and the owner sold and moved out long ago. In this case an exterior “drive-by” appraisal was called for and the house was valued based on the previous size, minus the pool and without bothering the new owner. In this case both opposing appraisals came in very close to each other and settlement was that much easier.

A historical appraisal sometimes involves similar principles of New Construction Appraisals where only specifications on paper exist and the appraiser determines the value as if completed to your plans and specs. This is sometimes referred to as a Feasibility Study and used to determine if what you plan on building is worth what you expect it to be worth and what adjustments in the build will increase or decrease value.

In these more complicated retro-active or historical appraisals it is important to find an appraiser with years of experience in that market area. An appraiser with sufficient experience may have insight in this area before, during and after changes that have occurred over the last 20 years in that target market. Additionally there are certain appraisal formats that are acceptable for use and others that are in direct OREA violation.

Lastly in historic appraisals, the use of comparable data must all fall before the effective date of the appraisal. If your effective date is 1-17-94 all sales comparables must fall before that date, none after. If for example you needed to know the value of a property sometime around the Northridge earthquake, using sale comps before or after would have tremendous impact on that value.

If the appraisal is for court work we may be called on the witness stand to testify to our report and defend it against the opposing attorney and his witness. There are additional fees for this type of testimony. As a professional appraiser it’s my responsibility to be the best possible resource for my client.

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Clifford Diamond, CREA

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September 21, 2007
  Despite Housing Slowdown, Today's The Time To Buy. Can You Afford To Purchase If Prices Or Interest Rates Rise?
Posted By Scott Wilson

Potential buyers and investors have given considerable thought to both housing prices and interest rates recently for two reasons:  First, they have been intrigued by comments from national economists about the statistics supplied by the Department of Housing an Urban Development that showed a 10.2 percent drop in the rate of new single-family home sales between July 2006 and July 2007.  Second, mortgage money for many homes will be more difficult (and possibly more expensive) to obtain, given the sub prime fallout and reports that borrowers in the “jumbo” category (loan amounts greater than $417,000) were facing increased scrutiny.

The idea of “saving my money until home prices come down” has probably become a contradiction in terms, at least for the foreseeable future.  Yes, housing is cyclical but it usually does not go backward for very long, if at all.  The additional money you save now probably will not offset the potential appreciation or the fatter monthly payment that could result if interest rates rise.

For example, if a $250,000 home appreciated 5 percent in the next year, could you sock away an extra $12,500 in after-tax savings to counter that gain?  This also does not take into account additional tax savings from the mortgage-interest deduction.  Or, if the market remains flat and mortgage interest rates rise, will you still even be able to qualify for the home of your choice?
Mortgage-interest news has not been positive.  The inflation and energy fears that were in the news two years ago have now taken a backseat to how scarce mortgage money could become~ especially for jumbo loans.

So, if you find the home you’ve always wanted and have your financing lined up, whether it be a primary residence, a second home or investment property, buy it and hold on to it.  Real Estate has been a terrific long-term investment. 

While the market “might have peaked” nationally, housing is local.  Boom markets, where real price growth increases at least 30 percent over three years, have been heavily concentrated in California (21%), the Northeast (18%), and Florida (11%).  And, according to the Federal Deposit Insurance Corp, boom does not necessarily lead to bust, only 17% of all housing booms ended in busts.  Most busts were preceded by a significant stress in local economies, such as loss of jobs.  A bust is defined as a nominal drop of 15% over five years.  Having that type of decline, for that long would require a dramatic event.

Do not take all national housing news and apply it as gospel in each and every neighborhood.  Housing will continue to work well as a long-term investment as long as strong fundamentals are in place.

Scott Wilson
President/Broker
Futura Financial Inc.
626-442-1888

 

 

 

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September 20, 2007
  Nick Hogan In Serious Car Crash
Posted By Don Schweitzer

While on Studio B, criminal defense attorney Don Schweitzer discusses the legal consequences that Hulk Hogan's son, Nick, should face after he lost control of his Toyota Supra while racing and seriously injuring his passenger.

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September 20, 2007
  Britney Spears vs. K-Fed
Posted By Don Schweitzer


Kevin Federline's legal team subpoenas Promises, the drug rehabilitation center where Britney Spears was treated, in an attempt to gain custody of their two children. How can Britney's stay in rehab influence the outcome of the custody battle? Family law attorney Don Schweitzer answers this question on Showbiz Tonight.

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September 20, 2007
  Desperate Search For Missing Boy Scout
Posted By Don Schweitzer


A star student headed to a boy scout meeting never shows up. While on Nancy Grace, criminal defense attorney Don Schweitzer provides legal commentary on this case.

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September 20, 2007
  Caught On Tape: Caregivers Attack Helpless Handicapped Woman
Posted By Don Schweitzer


Two caregivers are caught on tape physically abusing a handicapped woman after a secret camera was installed. While on Nancy Grace, criminal defense attorney Don Schweitzer provides legal commentary on this case.

 

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September 20, 2007
  Queens Woman Kills Father
Posted By Don Schweitzer


A woman from Queens, NY is charged for the death of her abusive father. Criminal defense attorney Don Schweitzer provides legally commentary on this case.

 

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September 20, 2007
  No Prison Party For Nicole Richie Or Lindsay Lohan!
Posted By Don Schweitzer

 

While on Fox & Friends, criminal defense attorney Don Schweitzer provides legal commentary on Nicole Richie's eighty-two minute jail sentence and on the light sentence given to Lindsay Lohan for her DUI.

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September 07, 2007
  O.J. Simpson and His New Trial of the Century
Posted By Donald P. Schweitzer

O.J. Simpson appears to have dug his own grave by freely speaking to the police and to the press about the details of his “sting operation,” which we all know was an armed robbery.  When a person speaks to the police or to the press without the assistance of an attorney, he or she will normally hurt whatever defenses may apply to a case.  But I, for one, will not underestimate O.J.’s ability to dodge, duck, and run ram shod over law enforcement agencies.  It was O.J., after all, who was found not guilty of a brutal double murder in a case where there was ten times the amount of evidence that is normally required to convict.

Let us not forget it was O.J. who Johnny Cochran once characterized as the smartest criminal defendant he ever represented.  And it is O.J. who was a criminal long before he ever stepped on a football field, i.e., he has a lifetime of experience beating the police at their own game.

Has theLas Vegas Police Department finally tackled O.J., when no other law enforcement agency within the country has been able to do so?  Again, I am not that confident.  In my mind this case is less provable than the double homicide, given that the victims in this case have shady backgrounds and at least one of them appears to have second thoughts about cooperating with the prosecution of O.J..  The media has also had a feeding frenzy on some of the key witnesses to the case which always causes problems for the prosecution.

However, there are two things about this case that may lead to a conviction.  First, this is a case in which O.J. will have multiple co-defendants.  As any prosecutor or criminal defense attorney will tell you, a defendant’s chances of beating the rap is diminished where there are co-defendants.  The biggest problem O.J.’s attorney will have is contending with other attorneys who may not be on the same page with O.J.’s defense. And there is always the strong possibility that the defendants will point their fingers at one another during the trial.

In addition, O.J. cannot pay for another dream team, Johnny Cochran and Robert Kardashian are dead, and there is a real possibility that he no longer has friends like Al Cowlings who will go to extreme lengths to help O.J. evade justice.

Stand-by, as you are about to observe, once again, a hall of fame football player and perhaps the most cunning criminal defendant in the history of this country, be the star of another trial of the century.  Whew!!

Written by Donald P. Schweitzer

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August 17, 2007
  Homeowners Guide to a Smooth Appraisal
Posted By Clifford Diamond

Getting your home appraised can be stressful. I would like to help take some of that stress away and help you get the most out of your appraisal experience. As an experienced appraiser in Southern California with over 20 years experience I would like you to see the assignment from our eyes.

First, remember the appraiser has a difficult job and you can help him/her by being cooperative and even friendly on the phone when he calls to schedule the appointment. Trust me, being nice goes a long way. Before the appraiser shows up, make sure the house is picked up, the areas to concentrate on would be the areas the appraiser is going to need to take pictures of. For me it’s usually the kitchen sink area, the master bathroom counter, fireplace, pool, if you have one. Its important to have the counters cleaned off for the photos, the floors clean, the walls free from marks and damage as this all counts towards your condition rating.

The yards should be picked up, no junk laying around, yards maintained, pool cleaned and operating as this also counts towards your condition rating. When I arrive I always give the owner my business card and ask if I can start in their kitchen. I personally always start in the kitchen, it tells me a lot about the rest of the house. I then work my way through the house counting bedrooms and baths, looking for any damage and any improvements and the type and condition of the existing improvements. I then usually have a brief “interview” with the owner. Any recent improvements, things I would not normally notice? If you want to prepare a brief list of the items you feel adds value, that’s always welcome.

Then I ask permission to go outside and measure the house (usually I prefer to go by myself). I measure the footprint of the home and later turn this into a computerized building sketch. This helps determine if there are “bootleg” additions and if the size matches the tax records. While I am outside I look around the eves and windows for signs of dry rot or water problems. When I end up at the front door I knock and thank them and let them know I am finished. If the appraisal is COD now is the time to collect a check. I have learned over the years not to stay and visit to long. The usual question is “so what’s my house worth” I can not answer that question for many reasons, first I have not finished the appraisal, this was just the beginning and second its bad business to haggle over their value on the doorstep.

It could be several days before I could determine the value. After the inspection which usually only last 15-30 minutes on a small tract house, I am off to go drive-by and shoot the “comps” I have selected to use. These are based on similar location, size and other criteria. After this fieldwork is done its back to the office to compile the report on our required software forms, input the building sketch, import the photos of the subject property, usually 3 interior/feature photos and the photos of the 4-5 comps.

It’s at this time when the comparable specs are added that the final valuation begins to form. After all the plus and minus figures are calculated the appraiser has an “adjusted value range” it’s at this time we take a moment and reflect on the condition, the photos, the conversations we had with the owner or Realtor any bits of information we picked up that help determine that final value.

Then we finish off the report, sign it, proof read it several times both on the computer and in printed form and send it off to the lender/client or whoever the intended user is. Once the lender receives the report you would think our job is done but there is often additional info that is needed, in some cases the lender feels additional comps are needed or they may even “cut” the value. Then the original appraiser needs to submit a rebuttal to a cut value. We do this for the client but also to protect our reputation and our approval status with that lender. If the appraisal is for court work we will be called, on the witness stand to testify to our report and defend it against the opposing attorney and his witness. There are additional fees for this type of testimony.

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August 10, 2007
  Avoid Foreclosure
Posted By Scott Wilson

If you’re behind on yourmortgage, don’t automatically assume that you’ll lose your house.  Quick action might allow you to keep your property.

Raise Funds:  Examine your spending to see if you can slash expenses.  “People waste lots of money on things like $3.75 lattes,” comments Randy Johnson, author of How to Save Thousands of Dollars on Your Home Mortgage.  Can you get a second job?  Swap your car for a less costly one?

Contact your lender immediately:  Lenders prefer a performing asset over a foreclosure and are frequently willing to work out a repayment plan.  You’ll need to provide a detailed financial picture and outline your strategy for staying up-to-date with our mortgage.  Here’s an example of what lenders will need:  www.housingeducation.org/edi/pdf/edi_worksheet.pdf

Whenever you’re asking for help from a lender, it’s suggested that you clearly illustrate what you have done, such as selling a car and meeting with debt counselor etc. to avoid future crises.  Here are some options they often consider.

Forbearance:  Lenders may let you make a lower or no payment temporarily…say for three to six months.  You’ll most likely have to make higher payments when you start paying again to bring the loan up-to-date.

Repayment:  If you’ve recovered from crisis, lenders may allow you to pay more each month for a set period to make up missed payments.

Modifications:  Lenders can reduce interest rates and extend loan terms to reduce the monthly payment.

Short refinancing:  Under a short refinance, you refinance and the original lender accepts a payoff for less than you owe.  You need to prove that the lender would lose more if the property gets foreclosed upon.

Short sale:  You can sell the property and lenders may agree to accept less than you owe.  This saves you from having a foreclosure on your credit record. 

Before accepting any deal, consult with your accountant.  Depending on the type of loan you have, you could owe taxes on forgiven debt.

Scott Wilson
President/Broker

Futura Financial Inc.
El Monte CA
626-442-1888

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August 06, 2007
  The Real Danger of Domestic Violence
Posted By Donald P. Schweitzer

This past week I had to face a terrible reality: sometimes, there is no way to prevent the real danger of domestic violence I came to this reality after receiving a phone call from a friend of one of my clients, informing me that my client had been severely beaten by her ex-husband during an exchange of their two children in the courtyard of the Police Department.  My client is currently in intensive care and is unconscious.  I am told by her family members that her jaw is broken, her left ear was almost severed off, and she suffers from swelling of her brain.  The doctors do not know if she will regain consciousness or suffer permanent brain damage.

As you can imagine, this news was devastating to me, as I care very much for my client who I established a close relationship with during the past three years of representing her in her divorce and subsequent child custody battles.  I have been agonizing over my work on this case, wondering if I did everything I could do to protect her.

I was hired by my client three years ago.  She was previously represented by another law firm, who had obtained a permanent restraining order against my client's ex-husband.  The ex-husband and my client had been married and living together, when he tied her up and beat her while the children were in the house.  The ex-husband was arrested and he pled guilty to felony domestic violence.  This was the end of the marriage, but only the beginning of a long and drawn out custody battle.

During the marriage, the ex-husband could not keep a job, and by default, he stayed at home and watched the kids while my client worked ten hours a day to support the family.  I will spare you the details, but I can assure you that the ex-husband was not a model father.  In his attempt to gain primary custody of the children, the ex-husband argued to the court that he had a strong pre-existing relationship with the children, and it was in the children's best interests for him to continue as their primary caretaker.  As to the domestic violence charges, the ex-husband claimed that the incident was an anomaly and he had learned his lesson by taking court ordered domestic violence classes.

The child custody evaluator and the court ultimately disagreed with the ex-husband and granted my client sole legal and physical custody.  The restraining order was extended, and the ex-husband was given visitation with the children a few hours during the week. The Judge also ordered that all transfers of the children were to be in the lobby of the local police station. 

In preparation for our trial on the custody issue, I reviewed the transcript of the deposition I took of the ex-husband two years prior.  I was reminded by how disturbed the ex-husband appeared and the amount of anger he demonstrated towards my client.  There was something about his face (especially his eyes) that told me he was crazy and out of touch will reality.  During the deposition, the ex-husband blamed my client for breaking up the marriage and declared that she had baited him into committing domestic violence against her so that she could gain the upper hand in the custody battle.   

At trial, I relied heavily on the deposition transcript while cross examining the ex-husband and he eventually became unglued. The man's insanity and hostility surfaced once again.  By the end of the hearing, the Judge was able to see the real nature of the ex-husband and ordered limited visitation.  The Judge also ordered that the ex-husband attend serious counseling before his visitation could ever be expanded.

At the end of this trial, I had a weird feeling that, in spite of my best efforts and in spite of the fact that we were victorious by convincing the Court to extend the restraining orders and order that the exchanges were to take place inside the lobby of the police department, that the ex-husband still posed a danger to my client.  In view of the subsequent brutal beating the ex-husband committed upon my client, I now know that my intuition was correct.

During the beating the ex-husband repeatedly pounded my client's head against a planter, as their two children watched while sitting in their car a few feet away.  The ex-husband was eventually stopped by a bystander and he was arrested and charged with attempt murder.  The children are in the care of my client's parents, who pray that my client will recover.

Did the system fail? Could this brutal second attack have been prevented?  Was there something else I could have done? I don't know.  However, I have a few suggestions for those who have been the victims of domestic violence and who still maintain contact with the perpetrator because of child custody issues.

1)                  Trust you instincts and don't let your guard down.  If you fear that you may be the victim of domestic violence, don't be shy in seeking all the available remedies with the court.    

  2)                  Consider asking the court to order monitored visitation and that somebody else stand in for you to make the exchanges.

3)                  If possible, bring someone capable of defending you to the exchanges.

4)                  Ask the court for permission to video record the transfers so that you can report back to the court when the perpetrator crosses the line.

5)                  Consider bringing pepper spray, a taser gun, or any other weapon that you can lawfully carry to the exchanges.

6)                  Finally, consider investing in a security system for your house, including surveillance cameras.

As the above case demonstrates, the legal system does not have all the answers and cannot protect victims of domestic violence, in all cases.  In light of this reality, you must take whatever steps you can within the law to protect yourself.    

Written by Donald P. Schweitzer     

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August 06, 2007
  Debunking the Prenup Stigma
Posted By Kayla Horacek

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           People love choices.  Typical Americans, and especially Californians, are no exception.  In the “golden state”, residents pride themselves on novelty and uniqueness in most aspects of their lives.  Inhabitants here scoff at the notion of a lifestyle template—they would rather tailor their own existence to meet their specific needs and desires.  Case in point—personal electronic devices.  Almost everyone in California has one—but no one device is quite the same.  There are so many exciting choices to make before becoming an owner.  Such as: what carrier do you choose?  What kind of plan do you get?  How much do you want to spend each month?  How many minutes is enough?  What device do you get?  A basic cellular phone?  Or an “all-in-one”, with phone, e-mail, internet, camera, and music features?  Or something in between?  Do you get a blue-tooth attachment?  This year’s model or last year’s model?  What kind of ring tones will you select?  What color will you choose?  A carrying case?  Accessories of any kind?  Certainly, there are more decisions to be made.  The point is that almost everyone leaps at the chance to make these somewhat silly choices.  People love the autonomy and self-design this process allows them.
            Strangely enough, Californians do not seem to celebrate choice and self-governance when entering into the marital relationship.  The vast majority of Californians do not opt to create their own “prenuptial agreement” (a before marriage agreement) with regard to resolution of property and support issues in the event a dissolution occurs.  Rather, they rely on the default community property system which controls here in California, and in several other states.  In fact, many argue that the existence of a prenuptial agreement reveals that an impending marriage is doomed to fail.  This group would argue that preparing for the ending of a marriage before-hand, during the “good” times, suggests an underlying deficiency in the relationship.  Admittedly, creating a prenuptial agreement requires a couple to venture into territory that may not be comfortable.  Imagining the end of a marriage is obviously depressing—and certainly no one wants to be depressed, especially after they have decided to embark on a new life with a partner.  Nonetheless, this endeavor forces two people to communicate about important financial issues they may have never discussed before—division of assets (present and future), division of debts (present and future), spousal support, child support, etc.  In that way, it could even be characterized as a litmus test for the marriage.  
            In any event, the creation of a prenuptial agreement allows a couple to craft their own plan with regard to their marital future.  It provides a way to tailor and design the possible termination of a marriage to completely meet your needs and wants.  In essence, a prenuptial agreement puts a couple in the driver’s seat, letting two individuals make their own specialized marital laws.  So why not take advantage of this ability to self-govern?  If one is willing to take so much care in ensuring their favorite song is also their ring tone, surely, they should invest as much time (if not more) protecting their legal interests if a divorce ensues. 
            So, for those out there brave (and wise) enough to create their own laws, the following is a brief summary of the legal requirements California imposes upon prenuptial agreements in 2007.
 
The agreement shall:
1.                  Be in contemplation of marriage;
2.                  Be in writing;
3.                  Be signed by both parties;
4.                  Not adversely affect a child’s right to support;
5.                  Not be in violation of public policy or a statute imposing a criminal penalty;
6.                  Be voluntarily entered into, which is defined as:
a.)   the party (against whom enforcement is sought) being represented by legal counsel at the time of signing the agreement or said representation being expressly waived, in a separate writing
b.)   the party (against whom enforcement is sought) having not less than seven calendar days between the time that the party was first presented with the agreement and advised to seek independent counsel and the time the agreement was signed
c.)    the party (against whom enforcement is sought if unrepresented by counsel) was fully informed of the terms and basic effect of the agreement as well as the rights and obligations he or she was giving up by signing the agreement, and was proficient in the language in which the explanation of the party’s rights was conduced and in which the agreement was written
1.)   the explanation of these rights must be memorialized in an agreement in writing and delivered to the party prior to signing the agreement
2.)   receipt of this explanation (as well as the source) must also be acknowledged in a signed documents
d.)   all documents were signed without duress, fraud, undue influence, or lack of capacity; and  
7.                  Not be unconscionable, which is defined as:
a.)   the party being provided a fair, reasonable, and full disclosure of the property and financial obligations of the party
b.)   the party voluntarily and expressly waiving their right to disclosure of the property and financial obligations beyond disclosure provided
c.)    the party having an adequate knowledge of the property and financial obligations.
***If the agreement contains provisions regarding the issue of spousal support, including, but not limited to, a waiver of said support, the party against whom enforcement is sought must be represented by independent counsel at the time of signing.

Clearly, the aforementioned guidelines are intended only to be a starting point in the creation of a prenuptial agreement.  Once you and your partner have discussed the ideal plan for your legal partnership, it is most advisable to take said plans to an attorney to have him or her memorialize the agreement. 

Written by Kayla Horacek

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July 27, 2007
  College Student Dissapears After Meeting Sex Offender Online
Posted By Donald P. Schweitzer

People who wish to use Internet services to meet others should seriously consider taking precautions.  Yesterday a convicted sex offender was arrested in Florida and the police have good reason to believe he had something to do with the dissapearance of a 19-year-old college student he met on the Internet

The student, Donna Jou, lived with her mother in Rancho Santa Margarita, and was a biology student at San Diego State University.  She was an honor student with excellent grades.  The suspect - John Steven Burgess, was a registered sex offender who lived in Los Angeles.  The two of them met on the Internet and Ms. Jou has not been seen since she was seen with Mr. Burgess on their first date.

Shortly after Ms. Jou’s disappearance, Mr. Burgess conveniently left California, leaving behind a trail of evidence that shows he probably had something to do with Ms. Jou’s disappearance.

This case illustrates how dangerous it can be to meet people on the Internet, however, before I talk about the dangers associated with Internet dating, let me state that I believe the Internet is a great method of meeting people.  Many of my clients that have trouble meeting others (especially my recently divorced clients), look to the Internet for opportunities to meet quality people.  However, given that predators are also using these Internet services, a great deal of precaution should be taken before you agree to meet face to face with somebody you met on the Internet. 

At a minimum, the following three precautionary measures should be taken when meeting somebody face to face for the first time: 

1)      If possible, conduct a background check on the person you are meeting.  There are several Internet sites that should be checked as a rule, such as the registered sex offender’s site;

2)      Do not meet with the person alone on your first date.  Bring a friend or family member with you when you meet your date for the first time; and

3)      Insist on meeting with the person in a public place.

This case also shows us that the people who argue that we should be electronically monitoring sex offenders with global tracking devices are not so crazy after all.  If these people are to be allowed to continue living within our communities, they have to be closely monitored for a significant period of time to ensure they will not re-offend.

Written by Donald P. Schweitzer

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July 24, 2007
  Lindsay Lohan Arrested for DUI and Cocaine Possession
Posted By Don Schweitzer
Lindsay Lohan Arrested Again
Lindsay Lohan arrested again on suspicion of DUI and possession of cocaine after allegedly engaging in a pursuit of a woman in Santa Monica. Attorney Don Schweitzer appears on Fox News and weighs in on the matter and potential consequences of Ms. Lohans actions if found guilty. See the video
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July 05, 2007
  Documents Dumped By Hospitals
Posted By Don Schweitzer

 Documents Dumped

While on KNBC, criminal defense attorney Don Schweitzer provides legal commentary on identity theft as a result of the improper disposal of hospital documents.

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July 05, 2007
  Gang Violence Rises In Los Angeles
Posted By Don Schweitzer

 Gang Violence

While on Studio B, criminal defense attorney Don Schweitzer provides legal commentary on the rise of gang violence in America.

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June 27, 2007
  Separating The Family Home With Clarity
Posted By Scott Yonehiro

 

 

 

It is widely accepted that two primary catalysts leading to divorce between married couples are a lack of communication and financial duress.  Even after seeking and applying proper counseling and therapy, divorce may be the only logical solution for couples undergoing such stressful times.  It is especially crucial that ensuring proper communication and emphasizing diligent financial awareness are so critical during the divorce process.  For it is very easy for the house and home -which you both fought so hard for- to crumble like a house of cards if the proceedings are not handled properly.

When a couple first purchases a home together there is no doubt that love, hope and dreams are emblazoned into the very essence of the walls within.  If it was a couples’ first home then it was probably a “Starter Home” and growing equity in the property over time was of utmost concern.  If the divorcing couple had already obtained their “Dream Home” then children, family events and the plans for retirement had likely already been drafted and secured.  Either way the home belonging to the couple has great value and the future of it must be steered wisely.

Anger, guilt and sorrow often prompt people to make quick and reckless judgments.  Many times divorcing couples decide to sell their home and split the equity within it, rather than hold onto it and bear the painful memories of broken dreams.  More times than not though, these same people regret this decision a year or two down the road, upon realization that all of their hard earned equity was lost through the cost of the sale or (even worse) that any future potential equity has been eliminated. When children are added to the equation, it is even more important to act rationally, so as to assure that a proper legacy or estate is drawn up to pass property onto heirs.

The individual finances of the divorcing couple should be evaluated to ascertain if either party can financially bear the cost of home ownership on their own.  If it is possible, then an overall future outlook of the projected appreciation in the home, neighborhood growth and family needs (e.g. school, church, medical, etc.); should be estimated to determine if the home is indeed a good investment.  If all things are considered and points towards one party keeping the home, then a refinance to liquidate equity and buy out the other party’s share would indeed be prudent.  If not, then a sale of the home may be the only viable option.

The need for divorcing couples to thoroughly and properly evaluate their individual finances, and weigh the true value of home ownership cannot be stressed enough.  By doing this, both parties can be assured that all decisions have been based upon logic, reason and financial clarity rather than stemming from emotional attachments. Failing to do so may unfortunately result in years of even more regret and sorrow than is truly necessary, due to the loss of hard earned investment equity and future plans of leaving a legacy for your children.  After all, nothing is worse than realizing that you may have caused yourself even more financial duress due to a lack of communication when those may have been the very reasons for the divorce in the first place.

Written by Scott Yonehiro, CMPS

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June 25, 2007
  Should Parents That Run Off With Their Child Have The Advantage?
Posted By Antonio J. Fricano

MOVE-AWAY MOM

 

 

There is nothing more important to parents than the well being of their children.  The thought of having one’s children taken from them is emotionally crippling.  In realization of the importance of the parent-child relationship, our legal system requires a hearing before allowing the custodial parent to change residences in a way that will significantly decrease the amount of time the non-custodial parent has with the child.  This hearing is commonly known as a “Request to Move-Away.”  At this hearing the non-custodial parent is afforded their due process right to challenge the move-away. 
However, what if the non-custodial parent was not allowed any hearing and the other parent took the child to another state without providing any notice?  This would be kidnapping, right?  It depends.  There is a current wrinkle within the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Enforcement Act (“UCCJEA”) that allows this action in some instances.  

The Situation
First, let me set the scene.  An unmarried couple resides in California with their 3 month-old newborn child.  Mother who is the primary breadwinner gets a job in Chicago and all three decide to move to the Windy City. 
After five months in Chicago, Dad decides it is too cold and wants to move back to California.  Mother has already made a commitment to her employer in Chicago and wants to stay.  She wants her child to stay with her in Chicago.  The couple argues and the next day Dad takes the child to California without telling Mother. 
When Dad reaches California he files a Paternity action and also files a Domestic Violence action because he felt threatened during his argument with Mother.
When Mother learns that Dad has taken their child without informing her, she calls the police, files a Paternity action in Chicago and gets a Court Order that Dad return to Chicago with the child.

The Legal Processes
At this point, there are conflicting Court Orders.  The Courts have to decide which Court has jurisdiction and which Order will stand.  The law governing jurisdiction over this issue is UCCJEA.  Under UCCJEA, the home state of the child has jurisdiction.  The home state of the child is the state in which the child has resided for the past six months continuously. 
However, in this hypo the child has not resided in either state for six months.  In this situation the Courts must contact each other to determine which Court has jurisdiction.   The Courts make this decision between themselves without counsel allowed to listen in or offer argument.  Sometimes the Court will consider moving papers that argue as to which state is the appropriate forum.  For the most part though, these decisions are made without a hearing and with each Court having very little knowledge of the facts.  If there is a hearing on this issue it is usually futile as it occurs after the Courts have contacted each other and reached a consensus.

The Problem
This initial determination of which state has jurisdiction is a tremendously important issue within the case.  If California claims jurisdiction, the child shall remain in California with Dad until the Court’s final determination, which could take longer than a year.  Mother will be forced to travel to California to litigate the case and her time with her child will be tremendously reduced.  A parent can go from seeing their child every day to seeing their child once every few months. 
The impact lasts longer than a few months however.  Once a Court declares jurisdiction, the parent from the other state is at a great disadvantage in terms of gaining primary custody in the future. 

In the hypo above, I also mentioned that Dad alleged domestic violence.  An allegation of domestic violence is one of the loopholes that parents that run away with their child use to achieve jurisdiction in a different state.  Domestic violence is a very serious problem and should be treated as such.  However, in these cases I have seen these accusations used strategically.  Any false claim of domestic violence is a tremendous set-back for those that actually suffer domestic violence.  The law should build in a penalty that takes into account the damaging consequences of any false allegations.


Author Commentary
The domestic violence exclusion to the UCCJEA law promotes false accusations.  If someone is being abused they should call the police and report it within the state that it occurred.  All the witnesses, evidence and the acts occurred within that state.  That state is best able to try the case and prosecute the offender.  It is ridiculous that someone should have to defend themselves in California for acts that occurred in Chicago.  Even if California does not have jurisdiction over criminal charges, the accused must still defend themselves as the Court will make orders affecting the visitation with their children based on these charges.
I think it is very easy to vision how this process might deny someone their due process rights.  In this instance the Courts are essentially granting a move-away without granting either party a chance to present their case.
To counter this, the Courts will point out that they do allow a hearing on the issue.  My response is: What use is a hearing if the issue has already been decided?  Often times, once the two Courts reach a determination as to which one should have jurisdiction, the other Court will decline jurisdiction.  Thus, if the California Court and Chicago Court reach a consensus, the Chicago Court will agree to decline jurisdiction.  Consequently, by the time this “hearing” is scheduled, Mother has no valid arguments to present.  She cannot argue that Chicago is the appropriate forum as it has already declined jurisdiction during its conversation with the California Court.  Effectively, the issue has been decided without a hearing and without an opportunity to present evidence. 

I realize the situation before the Courts is a difficult one, as there are limited resources and logistical problems with coordinating a hearing on the issue in two different Courts.  It is my opinion though that the inequities of the current method justify the costs and additional effort required to ensure that both party’s due process rights are protected.

Written By Antonio J. Fricano

 

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